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My boyfriend & I are thinking of experimenting with anal intercourse. We have been discussing this idea for at least a year. He and I have decided to go for it. My question is; should we use a condom? We have been together for four years and are in love with each other. During regular intercourse we use the withdrawl method. Additionally, I am told that upon initial penetration, the anal sphincter is likely to give a major spasm. Is this true? And what should we do to prepare ourselves? I am excited and nervous.